World Mental Health Day: Eammon's story

The theme is this year's World Mental Health Day is lived experience. Here Eammon, one of BHT Pathfinder's volunteer peer mentors, shares how rewarding it has been to support others with their mental health journey,following his own experiences with depression and anxiety

"I retired around a year and a half ago after 40 years of full-time work. During my career, I was diagnosed with depression in my 30s and around eight years ago, I was diagnosed with generalised anxiety disorder.

"On the whole, I was able to keep working, but I had occasional short periods of absence. One of the things that really helped me come to terms with my diagnosis was BHT Pathfinder.

"Basically, I had to find something to occupy my over-anxious brain, and so it was that BHT recommended me to attend a local book club. Reading was something I enjoyed, and the discipline of having to read one book a month by a certain deadline was really helpful for me. I also went along to a weekly BHT relaxation class. This opened my mind to more alternative help.

"When I retired, I knew that I would have lots of time on my hands, and I wanted to give something back, so volunteering for BHT Pathfinder seemed like a good idea. I attended a very thorough training course over 12 weeks, together with other online and face-to-face training. Then I started helping at BHT’s book club in Crawley.

"We meet every month and discuss whatever attendees have read, rather than a set text. The group caters for all levels of readers, not just the accomplished, and you don’t have to have read a whole book to attend.

"I have found that attendees of the book club rediscover themselves and, over time, are able discuss a subject of their choice. The group is informal and fun, getting clients out and about, as well as interacting with other people.

"It helps clients to know that you have been on the recovery journey yourself, and so you understand just how difficult it is to keep the spinning plates of life from falling to the floor"

Eammon
Eammon BHT 1

"I have also helped at the weekly walking group. We stroll very gently around a local park, and in spring and summer have the chance for a cup of coffee - always the best bit for clients and helpers!

"I volunteer supporting clients one to one, who have started their recovery journey; this isn’t counselling for the trauma they have experienced, but it’s simply helping them find a way forward that is right for them. Often the answers are there - or they need help developing alternatives they can then choose from and put into action. The agenda is very much theirs.

"The sessions might also include helping people to carry out a task they have lost confidence doing or to collate information they need for an application, for example, for a disabled travel pass.

"This has been very rewarding work, and it helps the client that you have been on the recovery journey yourself, and know just how difficult it is to keep the spinning plates of life from falling to the floor.

"This work helps clients to recalibrate and find a new normal - and I'm proud to be able to help them on their recovery journey."

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